One more thing, I don't care at all if the ENTJ's are romantic or not. I really don't give a crap. I just like the way I feel around them, and I like hugs from them. I like their discussions, they stimulate me.
Ok, what you are saying is subjective ( your personal view), what I am saying is observation on the basis of the model A. But it is good that you feel good around them - it does not mean you cannot be LII.
Anyways here is the accessories that I am wearing right now..
I usually tune the accessories down and wear a belt around my weigst or a tight vest to make my body shape look good.
I'm pretty unmaterialistic as I know both ESI and LII are. My romance style is wresling, talking, and cuddling. And a little playful banter and picking on each other.
ESIs are materialistic due to the creative sensing, they like all colors, flowers and in particular pink + yellow. Your accessories are not ESI but LII like, logical. I think ideally we should consider both models for the comparison. As regards to wrestling I cannot be sure it is more LSI like hobby but there is nothing clear cut in typology. LSI is "the relative" type for you so I can imagine that some LII could be wrestlers as well. It is not like all LIIs are scientists.
I'm not trying to disprove LII I just don't think its true. If you are wrong you will know soon enough. Do LII's spend most of their time thinking about their friendships and relationships?
Yes they do if they have nothing lese think about. )) I am not thinking about it all the time and I am an ESI. Thinking means Ti, analysis. ILIs also are good at analysing who said what and why.
It depends what you think how you think and why you think. My husband is a manager at work and sometimes he cannot sleep because he is thinking how he is going to sort out ethical problems at work with staff. It does not make him ethical type, he is looking for soultions Ne. As for me I deal with Fi- problems there and then and not think about it. A different matter if you are romantically involved then any type will think about it.
I don't make chart, think about theory, make lists, take notes. I don't even remember what I was thinking sometimes.
But hey, if you still see LII, I'm not going to say I'm not. I'm just going to keep pointing out the things I see.
We cannot carry on forever like that.
I will have one more conversation with you on Skype eventually and my job is done.
Carrina, why do you want to prove me that you are not LII? Why is it so important to you?
You will go to a different expert and he will suggest ILI or LSI may be. Are you going to spend you time for proving your point to any expert? Is it really necessary?
Socionics is not a math and different people will always perceive you differently as regards to type and not the type only. Some will say you are very warm and some say you are harsh and emotionally difficult or whatever.
What should be important for you - what you think about yourself. Type does not restrict you in any way not relationship wise not professionally. To a certain degree type is superficial category like a form but personality is a content. It does not all depend on the form but also on the content.
It is a part of life which is irrational - there is not and there will not ever be a clear cut categorisation of people - there will always space for mistery. I believe it is on purpose - there is a very deep meaning to it.
If I am not LII, you will know eventually.
(I personally would never think anyone could see LII from the pictures I have uploaded but you are the expert here not me.)
My music is about emotions and adrenaline. Its also about religion and the human condition. (ethics I'd say but again, I could be wrong) LOL
Yes, I see ethics but it is a logical ethics and not proper ethics. I think we have to admit that we shall be able to come to the agreement about your type here and now. It happens. )) WE shall have another chat and if you will feel like ESI then forget about Olga Tenagemann - there must be flaws in her approach. ))
Would you like to show pictures of you parents? How many siblings in your family?